Me versus my relatives and childhood friends- this flag thing will be something we agree to disagree about. We all grew up with Rebel flags. I just have 2 things to say. 1. Jesus said if something like food causes others to stumble, don't eat it. 2. Symbolism. - a cross means different things to different people. Atheist wear crosses because they mean something different to them 3.*I'm adding one. If you judge someone by skin color, I am now retarded to you. You can't generalize and group people.
It's not even worth getting upset about. Believe what you want. Live like you want. Value and judge what you want. We live in a fallen world.